Sometimes it seems like we've invented the rocket, we've sent people to the moon, but we still haven't solved the most talked about question: "Who should pay on the first date?". This ancient dilemma still plagues the minds of modern-day singles. Let's break this issue down.
Imagine this scenario: You're in a nice restaurant, the music is soft, the lights are low, and you've had a fantastic evening. The waiter brings the bill and places it in the middle of the table, like a "time bomb".
What do you do now? Look at the bill like a math puzzle? Start fumbling in your pockets like you've lost your house keys? Or just pretend you don't see it?
For many, this is a situation that requires a well-thought-out strategy. Some think that the husband should always pay, others believe that everything should be divided equally. But the truth is that there is no golden rule.
Here are some ways to resolve the situation:
One idea is to turn the whole situation into a game. Why not flip a coin and see who wins? It's a fun way to decide who pays. Plus, you save a lot of time and energy that you could spend discussing.
If you're one of those people who likes to be prepared for anything, you can practice phrases like "Shall we share?" or "I got the bill this time." By preparing in advance, you avoid awkward moments and show that you are an organized and open-minded person.
For those who do not want to spend a lot of money on meetings, there are always economical alternatives. A walk in the park, a cheap cafe, or a picnic - these are great and romantic choices that won't affect your budget that much. Plus, they create a more intimate and warm atmosphere.
And for those who want to be completely financially independent, why not pay "each their own"? This is a modern and fair solution that avoids any sense of obligation. After all, independence is one of the most important things in a healthy relationship.
Note: It doesn't matter who pays, as long as you are open and honest about your financial capabilities and your desires. And remember, a smile and a little humor can get you through any awkward first date situation!
Suggested articles:
