Following the airing of the mini-series " Love Doesn't Kill ", created by Anabel Entertainment with Nilor Film as part of the Un Women and Anabel Media campaign against gender-based violence, many followers shared with us their story of relationship violence and how they chose to give up such a relationship.
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"A month ago I managed to get out of a toxic relationship and every time I watch this mini-series, I see myself and him. I have tried commissariat, forgiveness, hope and I have never stopped loving. I stayed with him for 4 years, I ate bread and tears. Do you know what happened to me once? He woke up and saw me in a dream with another boy and the moment I went to say 'Good morning', he hit me and told me to disappear because according to him I betrayed him. He would not let me see movies where I liked the lead actor. He would not let me go out with my family. My company disappeared from the list. I always forgave him in the hope that he would understand that it was his fault and not mine.
I was just black of myself that I was completely blinded. Even when I forgave him for his betrayal, he said that I had forgiven him for revenge. Finally, the nightmare, the horror is over. "Now, even though my brain is pretty tired, I'm trying to live a normal life, lead a normal life, regain and regain as many lost things as possible, including people."
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Sapo pashë pjesën e dytë të ‘Dashuria nuk vret’, momenti kur i përplas kokën në makinë, realisht kam qarë sepse kam qëndruar shtatë vite në një lidhje dashurie abuzive psikologjikisht dhe fizikisht. Kam qëndruar në këtë marrëdhënie abuzive dhe e kisha pranuar fatin tim. M’u desh të humbja një fëmijë në muajin e 6 të shtatzënisë që ta kuptoja. Theksoj që jam vajzë e lindur dhe rritur në Durrës, e shkolluar në një nga degët më të mira sot për sot, e punësuar shumë mirë. “Edhe me 10 fëmijë të më vish në shtëpi, do të pres se je fëmija im” më thoshte im atë. Rigjeta kurajon për të jetuar e sot kam vajzën 2 vjeç me një bashkëshort të rrallë që më respekton dhe dashuron.”
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"I have seen it over 10 times. It reminds me of a very bitter reality of mine. Even though everyone told me to be patient, including my mother, because "men have it that way", I managed to escape from that destructive relationship, without anyone's help. They were the darkest four years of my life. Only when it all ends do you realize how much you have been humiliated. ”
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"I cried at the end of 'Love does not kill.' After 10 years of marriage, I did the same thing even though I cried for 1 year in a row because I thought I ruined my daughter's life, ruined her family. But today she is 20 years old, happier than ever. It is never too late to get out of a violent relationship. If you have children, believe me they will be happier. ”
You can find the series "Love does not kill" here .
