Breaking up is definitely difficult, but in many cases, there are specific moments when people realize that they need to end a relationship. We, on Anabel's Instagram account , asked people exactly what this moment was and they answered us like this:
" When he gambled and lied. Not only did he not accept it, but he also called me "disbelieving". "When he was talking on FaceTime with his girlfriend while I was in bed with him." "When I discovered the deceptions and manipulations. We were together for 15 years." "When I realized that he was married during the period that he was related to me." "When we didn't have sex for 4 years." "When someone wrote to me with a lot of lek". "When I had no more joys, but only tears". "When he put his hands on my throat in front of his family and no one did anything, on the contrary". "When he started to use physical and psychological violence against me and the children and the boy told me that it was my fault because I did not denounce him". "When I became indifferent to him". "When 2 days before I gave birth to my second child, I left all my savings of 10 years in poker". "When I was thinking about someone else while having sex with him". "When he cheated on me with my friend". "When he repeated the same sentences to me as always while apologizing to me." "When the relationship became monotonous and turned into an obligation, not a desire." "When our houses were 5 minutes apart and we met once every 3 weeks". "When I had to document with photos/videos at every moment where and with whom I was". "When he told me: "I decide for the child". I was pregnant. I lost the child, but I found myself again". "When he started treating our child like me. It was the end! Zero tolerance!". "When he made 'pfff' reactions, he would just open the phone when I took him on a video call." "When I asked myself the question: "Do you love it or not?". "When he didn't deny that he flirted with other girls, on the contrary, he liked it and had fun with it." "When I didn't know myself anymore". "When I stopped loving her and in my relationship, I turned into a spectator." "When I realized that he did the things he used to scold me for." "When he insulted me, he saw me crying and didn't care at all." "When he cheated on me several times with the same person". "When he dedicated all his time to religion. He forgot that he had obligations and he had to devote himself to me as well." "That I realized that I was a lady and he was useless to me." "When he came home at 6 in the morning and woke up at 4 in the afternoon. This happened several times in a row, for several months." "When I felt like I was raped. I don't know how I coped with that period". "When I realized that I had lost myself and was going towards suicide".
"When he started writing to me very briefly: "Ok", "Good" and he would delay my messages by 1-2 hours".
