Tattoos for the ex: Are you Ledri or Besi?

In the photo: Ledri Vula, Bes Kallaku and their tattoos

People meet, fall in love, promise eternity, and make beautiful acts of love, like tattoos dedicated to their partners.

For many reasons, some stories don't have fairy tale endings: they lived happily ever after, so...they part ways.

But what happens next?

Some decide to erase/cover up tattoos they have dedicated to ex-partners, while others believe that everything we experience affects who we are, so as proof of this principle, they don't even erase the "traces" of a love that ends.

But what does this tell you?

Let's focus on two concrete examples: Besi and Ledri.

Ledri emphasized in an interview that he has the birthday of his ex-partner, Sara Hoxha, written on his arm. Although they have broken up, he emphasized that he has no intention of removing this tattoo, as it reminds him of a part of himself.

On the other hand, Besi has chosen the opposite. He once had a tattoo on his leg with the initials B&XH, meaning Besi and Xhensila, which he has decided to cover up.

Would you remove a tattoo for an ex? Your choice says a lot about how you view love, breakups, and memories...

If I choose Ledri – “I would keep the tattoo”

It shows that you are:

Reflective person – You see the past as a formative part of your identity.

Emotionally open – You are not afraid to admit that you once loved deeply.

Nostalgic – Memories have value for you, even when they are no longer active.

Emotionally mature – Doesn't deny a relationship just because it's over.

Faithful to experiences – For you, everything that has happened has helped you be where you are today.

If I choose Besi – "I would erase the tattoo"

It shows that you are:

Pragmatist – You see things with a practical eye: if it's no longer a part of your life, why keep it?

Clear with emotional boundaries – When something ends, it should also end symbolically for you.

Future-oriented – You will not remain a hostage to the past.

Emotionally protective – Removing the tattoo may be your way of not letting the pain linger.

Discreet – Maybe you don't want new partners to feel embarrassed.