This "BBVA" has just started, but it has become super discussed, due to the behavior of the residents inside the house. One of the residents who has taken the brunt of the public's hatred is Olta Gixhari, who ignites sparks in every conversation. Some people call her "strong" and "strategist", and some others "bullying".
The third term was born during and after the passive-aggressive clash that Olta had with Zhaklina Gjolla, the former competitor who decided to leave the house unexpectedly, after a difficult psychological state. After that, other comments, ironically bullying, exploded more than ever against Olta, making a public trial through social networks.
It is true, Olta has a provocative nature, often even overdoing it, but why are we all dealing with Olta? We don't see Kevin saying to Eff: "When I was traveling the world, you ate seeds"?; We are blinded by discrimination and are convincingly ignoring the fact that Herion is judging Ronaldo for his sexual orientation, when the latter has not given any statement and, moreover, it is a completely personal matter.
Why don't we talk about the harassment Louis inflicts on Kiara? Or are they funny because Luiz makes jokes? Why are we ignoring Kiara who looks clearly annoyed but is polite enough not to react badly?
Can we talk about the fact that pollsters, who are paid to analyze and do their job as pollsters, are basing your Instagram comments and talking about politeness and ethics, when they know very well what characters and situations they are dealing with? Don't Arbri and Zhaklina have a more stable argument than: "I don't know what answer to give to Olta" and "You have no education"?
But, we are not so uninformed and clueless as not to know that bullying exists and is more present, not only towards children, but also towards adults, but in such cases, when we are dealing with a social experiment such as is "Big Brother" not only in Albania and Kosovo, but everywhere in the world, where adults over 30 years old, who have faced hundreds of similar situations in life, choose to maintain a passive-aggressive behavior, become victimized and do not defend themselves, maybe the person who attacks them is not to blame, but the person who welcomes the attack.
The conditions of the program are such, with extreme situations, unknown characters, that, like Olta, choose to play the game and follow their own strategy, with total isolation from social networks and the outside world, as well as with such a duration where every bit of one's true personality comes out and where every attack must have a counterattack, if not a reaction.
So, if we want to throw stones at Olta, let's have equal standards and throw them at every adult, whether active or passive. Let's start from Zhaklina, who clearly said that she left the house because she needed love, personal space and to do yoga, don't you think she didn't know she was entering a house that is watched 24/7.
Let's continue with Luiz who doesn't reek of rejection; with Amos, who will create a relationship with Dea Micheli as far as eye and cheek; with Dean himself thinking that the best value is being beautiful; with Herion judging someone on sexual inclinations.
Let's also crucify Armando, who talks behind Olta's arms and so on!
Let's not forget that the audience gives them maximum attention! If in that house, Olta would be such a heavy burden, the contestants can nominate her and the audience can kick her out of the house. The same public that, as it claims about Olta, bullies her online, saying some of the worst words to her.
- This article is a personal opinion, written by A. Shehu, contributing editor at Anabel Media.
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