If a woman is doing these 10 things, she is likely scaring away good men

Photo: "Love and other drugs" (2010)

The million-dollar question: why do good guys always disappear? It may have nothing to do with the universe or fate, but with some small behaviors that seem innocent but are actually deal-breakers.

Many women complain about red flags in men, but they have their own list too. And yes, it's often more common than you might think. Here are the 10 most common behaviors that men say make them leave:

1. Pretending like you're not smart

If you think being "cute but not too smart" is sexy, you're totally wrong. Emotionally healthy men want a woman who shines with intelligence and confidence.

2. Arrogance

Confidence = sex. Arrogance = get away from me. No one wants a partner who thinks they are above everyone else.

3. Stretching

From saying "I like football" when you can't stand it, to laughing at his jokes. Confident men can tell when you're not being authentic.

4. Endless drama

You know that “I’m making a soap opera out of nothing” energy? Men only take it up to a point. Then… they disappear.

5. Endless complaints

From food, to service, to ex, to traffic. It seems like it doesn't do anything for you. Good men get tired of this energy quickly.

6. Forgetting the "caring" side

Many girls enter into a competitive role with their partner. But be careful: caring, listening, being supportive, is not a weakness, it is a superpower.

7. Poor hygiene

There's no room for philosophy here. Self-care is the bare minimum.

8. Phone above all

If your new story has a higher priority than the one in front of you, then don't expect it to stay up long.

9. Selfishness

A relationship is two people, not a monologue about your life. If you don't leave room for the other person, it becomes a nuisance.

10. Zero decision-making

A man will not be your eternal “Google Maps.” Decide for yourself, be clear, because constant indecision is tiring.