Hello curious and confused soul!
This article shows you some situations in which you can understand whether or not you should separate from your partner. In advance, you should know that the final decision is up to you, in any case, the situations are as follows:
When you don't feel like you have the right place and priority
A situation when you have to separate:
If you constantly feel neglected and think that the other person does not give you the importance and attention you deserve.
If your partner is constantly inattentive and neglectful of your needs and desires, despite your many attempts to communicate them, then it can be said that the partner in question does not value this relationship. This is also confirmed by psychologist Parisa Ghanbari.
Follow the link if:
You have communicated your concern to the other person and he/she is paying attention to your needs and desires.
For future issues
You can be separated if:
You don't see yourself with your partner in the future at all. When you don't imagine your partner next to you in the future adventure, maybe it's better to end it now, without committing more and spending more time.
Follow the link if:
Everything in your life is unclear and you still have no idea how the next 5 years will find you. This is totally okay, don't put pressure on yourself and more than that, don't end the relationship.
Thinking about having sex with someone else
You can be separated if:
Your sexual fantasies involve much more than sex. It's normal to have sexual thoughts about someone else, but if you imagine yourself in the arms of the person you're thinking about sexually. If you find yourself thinking about how happy you would be with the person you imagine, then maybe you should break up.
Follow the link if:
If your sexual fantasy remains only about sex, then it is more normal and common, especially in long-term relationships.
When you feel like you're bothering him
You can be separated if:
Your partner is preventing you from meeting or hanging out with friends. Even in cases where he is bombarding you with love (a manipulative technique used by narcissists), or constantly checking your phone, the time you meet him, etc., maybe you should break up, because despite the argument "I do it out of love", trust us, a person who does things out of love first respects your boundaries and privacy and trusts you.
You can follow the link if:
You're just having a stressful week, and if you feel like the other person's answers are dry or "forced," maybe it's just you. In this case, communication is key.
It does not go well with family members or friends of the partner
You can be separated if:
You think that your partner's friends and family are super toxic and don't respect you, on the contrary, they do everything to make you understand that they don't like you. If you've told the other person how you feel and what you're thinking and you don't see any change, it's probably best to break up.
You can follow the link if:
Your partner understands and respects your opinion and feelings. You don't have to become close friends with the people around him.
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