There are many bitter sentences that are said without thinking (or well thought out) that leave traces and wounds in people's lives. They can come from the mouths of parents, partners, children, or anyone who enjoys the power to hurt us. Yesterday we asked our followers on Instagram and they shared with us the most bitter sentence that someone has said to them:
"I regret giving birth to you" and "If I hadn't made you, I would be more comfortable". I am the third child". "From dad: You are the biggest disappointment for me". "She is better than you", from the ex-partner, who had cheated on me several times and said these words to me after I reacted furiously. "Mom told me: "Who would I be if I didn't have you" in a negative connotation".
"When I had just given birth to my daughter, I was still pregnant, my mother-in-law told me: "This is my daughter, you just gave birth to her. God brought it to me and I will take it." "Woe to the child for the mother that will have", when I was pregnant and in a bad state of health". "Don't worry, maybe on the next visit they will tell you it's a boy", while we were happy with a girl". “My ex told me he was ashamed to tell people how he met me. We met on Instagram". "My father told me: "You are dead to me" and he did not speak to me for 4 months after I made the decision to leave Albania". "I am the fifth daughter in the family and I have no brother. My grandmother told me: "If I knew you were a girl, I would have suffocated you." I am traumatized every time I see my grandmother".
“Pasi tentova vetëvrasjen, babi më thoshte: “Ti je e çmendur, duhet të të çojmë në spital psikiatrik”.
“Mamaja që kur isha e vogël, në shkollë fillore më thoshte: “k*rvë”, “b*shtër”, ose më mallkonte: “Vdeksh!”, “Mos të zëntë mëngjesi”. Lëndime dhe tortura emocionale më e tmerrshme për një fëmijë”.
“Ime më më uroi të më zinte kanceri dhe të mos më gjenin as varrin. E gjitha kjo, sepse s’kam mundësi ekonomike t’i dhuroj jetën që do ajo. Jo të gjithë janë prindër se të kanë dhënë jetën”.
“Babi, xheloz për arritjet e mia, më tha që jam rritur në detyrë se jam dashnorja e ndonjë drejtori”.
“Mami më thoshte të mos dilja nga shtëpia, sepse isha mbipeshë dhe ishte turp të më shihnin të tjerët”.
“Të mora nga hiçi” më tha im shoq!”.
"You will force me to kill myself", mom, every time I go against her about something". "When I told my ex-fiancé that I'm pregnant, he said: "You're not with me, you're not mine", while my mother-in-law said: "Cuckoo, stay away!". "If I had a chance with him, do you think I would be with you?". "Mom: When dad didn't love you, no one will love you (dad abandoned us)".
You can find the others in Instastory on Anabel's Instagram account .