Laert Vasili's confession on "Big Brother VIP Albania", where he publicly revealed that he had been abused by a neighbor, a trusted family member, at the age of 9, shocked the public and sparked an important discussion on the topics of violence, silence, and the courage to speak out after many years.

 "At the age of 9, something happens that I will never forget for the rest of my life. A neighbor abusing a nine-year-old child. And this has been inside me for 42 years. I didn't tell him because I was threatened that I would be very badly abused if I told him. The problem was that he held the key to the house. He was a trusted person. I had simply locked him in that dark drawer that I didn't want to open. I saw that man every day."

This courageous narrative has many aspects that make it so important.

1. The power of storytelling after decades of silence

Laert Vasili carried this pain for 42 years, hidden in the “dark drawer” of his life. His confession is an example of the power of telling the “truth” after many years of silence. This act is a reminder that trauma can remain inside and affect the victim’s life for many years, but there is always an opportunity to lift this burden when someone finds the strength to speak out.

2. The abuser hiding behind the mask of trust

The abuser in this case was a neighbor, a person to whom the actor's parents had entrusted the key to the house. This story shows that abuse does not always occur from strangers, but often occurs from people close to them, whom families trust and see as safe. Laertes' story teaches us how important it is to be careful about the people we bring close to our children, no matter how trustworthy they may seem.

3. We can't protect children.

His story highlights that child protection starts with education and care in the family. Children need to learn that they have the right to say “no” and that they should not be afraid to speak up about any inappropriate behavior they may experience. Laertes confessed that he was afraid to speak up because he was threatened with violence. This is an example of how important it is to create an atmosphere where children feel safe to express any concerns, despite threats. Educating children about boundaries, respect and trust is essential to prevent abuse and provide a safe environment for them.

4. Silence as a lifelong burden

Laertes revealed that he has lived with this secret his entire life. This is an example of how heavy the burden of keeping such a secret can be and why many victims remain silent for so many years. This silence, however, is not a sign of weakness, but a form of survival, and when someone finds the strength to speak out, it is an important step towards healing.

5. A society that doesn't listen, a society that judges

Laerte shared a bitter reality, that many victims do not speak out for years, because fear of judgment and lack of trust stop them. This story shows that society needs to be more open and offer support to those who want to speak out, without judgment.

6. When a public figure speaks

When a well-known figure speaks out about such topics, it has a huge impact on society. His story is an opportunity to break the silence and encourage others who have gone through similar experiences to speak out and seek help.