It goes without saying that communication is essential to a healthy relationship. It is the one that builds trust and strengthens emotional intimacy in the couple. Good communication reflects openness, honesty and discretion. Partners, being active listeners, become sensitive, present and 100% involved in you and your needs. Start with a few questions and specifically the ones below. They are not easy to communicate, but necessary.

1.

What are you most proud of from our relationship? In your opinion, what do we do better together?

2. 

What is something you love most about me that others don't even notice?

3.

Tell me 3 things you and I have in common.

4. 

How have you changed over the last few years?

5. 

Do I seem like I've changed?

6. 

What is the most precious memory you keep of us as a couple?

7.

What do you imagine our life will look like in 5 years? What about after 15 years? 

8.

What can I do to make you feel more supported?

9.

What would you like us to try in bed that makes you nervous to discuss it?

10.

Tell me a little bit about the best sex we both had. What made it so good?

Source: Psychology Today