I am a 35 year old, heterosexual man who just discovered a new, slightly suspicious and immoral obsession. I met a woman at a bar who was visiting my hometown on a business trip. She was open about the fact that she was married, but told me she had no problem cheating on her husband. We ended up having sex that night and since then, I have not been able to stop thinking about it. There is something so sexy about doing something you "shouldn't". I like the idea of ??lying and going secretly, the idea that you are in danger of being caught even though in fact, I would not want to be found by anyone's husband.

However, now I want to sleep with more married women. I recently shared this with my friends and they all gave me some judgmental looks. They said what I want to do is wrong and shows that I have a problem. I do not find something VERY bad. After all, I would not force anyone.

Constantly, I ask myself: How wrong is what I want to do? Is it wrong when we love both parties so much ?!

From the "destroyer of families".

- Letter to Men's Health