The separation happened and what came after it was not pleasant at all. You felt no sense of liberation and the longing is getting worse day by day. Decide it, you will get it again, but you are afraid because I do not know how to do it the right way! Another misconduct may be the end of your hopes, so consider some (general) behaviors when you want to get someone back.
Spend some time away from each other
The number one rule of any separation is to spend some time apart. Do not contact it for 2 weeks. Separations are very emotionally stressful and you need time to breathe, calm down and put things in perspective.
Time away from each other will allow things to cool down and you will be less excited. You will also have time to think about how you feel about the separation, where you went wrong and whether you want to go back with it.
Focus on what you want
During this time away, find time to focus on yourself. Stay single and enjoy. Evaluate who you are and what you want. Go to the gym, find a new style of clothing, go out with friends, make new friends, find a new hobby. There is nothing sexier than a guy who has his life. This will help you to restore self-esteem and confidence in the country.
If after this time (2 weeks), during which you are devoted to yourself, you are still sure that you love the girl back, move on to the next step.
Understand why the split came about
The first step to restoring your relationship is to understand what went wrong and why he / she broke up with you. No girl will accept you if you do not know why she left you. Think long and hard until you answer these questions: What did he say to you before you separated?
Contact
If even after some time you just want it again, contact us. Whichever way you choose, make sure the message is light and playful.
Do not be too serious when meeting him
Kujtohuni të ruani qetësinë. Caktoni një takim për drekë ose kafe gjatë ditës, njëlloj sikur po takoni një shoqe. Diçka më e rëndë se kaq, do t’ju bëjë të dukeni nevojtar dhe sikur po përpiqeni t’i bini në sy më shumë se ç’duhet. Sigurohuni që biseda të jetë e lehtë, flirtuese e argëtuese. Kujtojini asaj njeriun me të cilin ra në dashuri, jo atë me të cilin u nda.
Vazhdoni takohuni
Nëse e doni sërish pas takimit të parë, vazhdoni me këto takimet rastësore...
Shkoni drejt qëllimit
Pas disa takimesh, nëse doni të rilidheni me të, tregojini se çfarë mësuat nga javët, gjatë së cilave qëndruat të ndarë.
Tregojini se e kuptuat se pse u ndatë dhe se jeni duke punuar për ta përmirësuar atë gjë. Duhet t'i tregoni se jeni pjekur dhe se e keni dëgjuar atë që ajo ka thënë.
Nisni nga puna!
After the reconciliation and once the joy of returning together is over, it is time to start working on the relationship. You have to work with things that did not work out at first.
You should know that relapse lasts for more than a night, so tell her that you are ready to show a better version of yourself, without falling prey to old behaviors. This time you need good communication and a lot of patience. If you have these, the relationship will surely last.
Source: Huffington Post
