We understand why you made these mistakes. We understand that you are in a very weak and confused state of yours. We also understand that you really want your ex-boyfriend back and this is the main reason for many of the mistakes you have made.
However, there's something you need to understand right now. The more mistakes you make in your "campaign" to get your ex back, the lower your chances of being able to get him back.
For your own sake, stop making these mistakes when you feel so tempted to meet your ex again:
Mistake #1. You've become like an annoying mosquito with messages
In the saga of the insects you've decided to transform into out of desperation, we invite you to choose which of the following mosquitoes you are when you get back with your ex:
- The mosquito that won't stop no matter how much you ignore it:
- The mosquito that seems to be running away, but still with the same sound:
- The mosquito that has decided to drink your blood:
Mistake #2. You've become a phone call junkie
We don't have to explain this, do we? A call snitch is basically the same thing as a text snitch, except instead of texting we're dealing with someone who constantly calls their ex.
We understand that after a breakup you need answers. We understand that when you want those answers fast, you end up calling and talking to your ex. What we don't understand is how you don't feel ashamed when you feel the need to call him 5 times a day even if he's ignoring you.
Mistake #3. The Cardinal Sin of Coming Ahead "Accidentally"
Oh, where do we start with this… Ok, let's start with how terrifying it can be for a guy if his ex-girlfriend shows up unannounced and personally declares her love for him.
We blame Hollywood and all the romantic comedies with happy endings for this. Well, we hate to spoil your excitement, but life is not Hollywood and it's rare that you can show up unannounced, "accidentally" in front of your ex, making a grand romantic gesture, and it works.
We know what you're thinking right now. "I made a romantic gesture... are my chances over?" Probably not. However, you've hurt them a lot!
Mistake #4. Leaving gestures in public
Men don't connect emotionally in the same way that women do, and this is an important fact to understand. No grand romantic gesture will bring her back. In the history of these romantic acts by girls and women, there has never been a case where it has worked. Do you think you will be different from the others?
Mistake #5. Begging for your ex-boyfriend to come back
Seriously? Are you going to be a love beggar? If so, you probably won't get that guy back. In fact, we think the only way "begging" works is if your ex wants you to do it because it makes him feel better and more powerful, which again, is not OK!
Source: Ex Boyfriend Recovery
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