Since man by nature seeks what he does not have, it happens that we become obsessed with those who do not pay attention to us.
It seems to us as if we will never forget that person, as if we will never meet anyone who likes us so much and such things. In fact even in this case, as in many other cases, it's all psychological issues.
When we like someone we worry about controlling what they do on social media, where they hang out, with whom, but you know what? This must end.
Get rid of social networks!
It is not easy to see her every day posting pictures with her new girlfriend. To gain control and not be influenced by his actions, or no longer follow him on Instagram, or use options so that he does not appear on the front page.
Usually, I don’t even notice that you are no longer following her on Instagram. The truth is that generally, fixations that do not return us do not care what we do, so give a wipe freely and live quietly.
Allow someone new to take it out of their mind
Whether on Tinder, Facebook, Instagram, or when you go out for coffee with friends, the opportunities to meet new, interesting people are endless. Do not become so shallow as to let them go just because "they are not like him" and because he thinks that you will "never feel like him anyway". There is nothing that makes you forget a fixation, as a young man with whom you constantly communicate. Usually, this young person (that you should not make the mistake of letting go of) is much more intelligent, polite and worthy than the one you are obsessed with, it only takes a while to get the idea out of your mind and get to know it.
Be honest with yourself
Indeed, obsessions are obsessions, but when we remember them years later, we say, "What did I like about him?" The same thing happens when you grow up. At first he idealizes him, but after a while he starts to see him as an ordinary person, as he is, with all the flaws he has (main: he does not like you). The time when a funny memory will seem to you will come sooner or later, but the sooner you clarify its image within yourself, the better it will be.
Source: Bustle
