The well-known expression: "Make new friends, but keep the old ones" sums up the essence of friendship and the importance of maintaining old ties even as you create new ones. However, maintaining old friendships from childhood and making new ones at university are different experiences that require special care.
During childhood, friendships seemed "scripted". They were formed by shared experiences in classrooms, various activities and community events. But when you go to university, things change.
At university, you find yourself starting all over, explaining who you are, where you come from and why you are the way you are. Building new friendships requires being open to sharing your experiences and dreams, a process that may seem unusual at first, but which can lead to even stronger new friendships.
Here are some tips on how to maintain old friendships while making new ones:
1. Regular communication
I keep in touch with old friends by communicating regularly. Use technology to stay close regardless of distance. A simple text or a phone call every now and then can do wonders to keep the relationship alive.
2. Recall shared experiences
Don't forget to remember the good times you spent together. Shared memories are a great way to maintain closeness and keep old friendships fresh.
3. Acceptance of change
It's normal for you and your old friends to change over time. Accept that each may have new interests and different lifestyles, but this should not hinder your friendship. Adapt and support each other at every stage of life.
4. Make new friendships carefully
At university, new friendships form quickly, but it's important to be careful. Look for qualities similar to those you value in old friends, such as a shared sense of humor or a similar outlook on life.
5. Don't forget yourself
In an effort to maintain old friendships and create new ones, it is important not to lose yourself. Remember that the best friendships are those that allow you to be yourself and accept you as you are.
After all, old and new friendships can coexist. While old friends are the ones who have seen you grow up, new friends are the ones who will be a part of your future. Both of these types of friendships are precious and complement each other in different ways. So when building new friendships, don't forget to keep the ones you've made over the years.
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