"Penis size is not something you usually think about, especially when you do not have much experience or idea to compare. But then, I had sex with someone with a very small penis and my idea of ??what was "big" or "small" changed.
So what exactly is considered average? An article in the Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy reviewed over 30 studies where researchers had previously measured penis length and determined that the average penis during an erection is between 12.9-13.9 cm. It was noted, however, that usually the average is at the smallest limit of this space. The researchers also noted that men consider average height to be longer than 14 cm, but this is a false assumption because science does not say so.
Does penis length matter in women?
An article in European Urology found that of the participants surveyed, 55% of women considered height "irrelevant" and 22% considered it "totally irrelevant". A newer study found that for long-term relationships women preferred a penis length slightly above average.
How long was the "very small" penis we were talking about? Slightly smaller than 5 cm, slightly longer than the thumb.
"I stayed with him for a few months to see if 'good things' come from 'small things'."
Here is what happened when I had sex with someone with a small penis:
# 1 - At first I was surprised and a little surprised, even though I tried not to give up.
# 2 - I should try not to ask, "Is it there?" - I know, it sounds harsh but that's the truth. However, it gets better.
# 3 - We tried a lot on the "doggy" style - It was the only position where I could feel something.
# 4 - I became a master of "deep throating", although as you can imagine, it was not a very difficult job, but he liked it.
# 5 - I learned to enjoy anal sex.
# 7 - He was the only partner with whom I enjoyed oral sex. It's true what they say about guys with small penises: They are masters at oral sex. Fantastic!
# 8 - I realized I didn't have to lie to him saying something like "he's too big". Some things we just do not have to discuss.
That said, the penis size complex is the most "idiotic" thought we have in mind. There are so many options to enjoy in bed that there is no reason to worry.
Source: Bustle
