You and your sibling can quarrel for many reasons, in most cases even for the most banal reasons in the world. She / he has put on your blouse without getting permission and that's so it takes a super quarrel in the family that God knows how it ends.
Although to some extent quarrels between children are normal, for parents it becomes a problem if this phenomenon becomes more frequent. What role should parents play in this case?
1. They need to know when to intervene and when to leave them alone
Violence, bullying and other signs of abuse must be stopped at all costs. No kind of quarrel justifies violence against each other. If you see them arguing or arguing from afar, there is no need for immediate intervention. Let them solve it themselves through arguments, as by doing so you are raising tolerant citizens of the future.
2. Do not hold sides
Like all parents, you love your children the same. Sometimes it inadvertently happens that you are not able to treat them equally when they are fighting. Hold the side of one and criticize the other. Try not to do that. Do not side with anyone even if one is right. Encourage them to solve them themselves and help them find the problem.
3. Stop arguing and set a time to get back to him
Children can get hot faster than adults, but at the same time they are still the first to forget. If you see that the quarrel between them is not stopping, ask them to deal with other things. Involve them in housework and when the situation has calmed down decide in front of each other for clarifications.
4. Exhale to breathe freely
A good way to avoid quarrels between children is to let them play outside the home. Unleash energies and loads by giving the bike or playing with the ball. Join them if you have the time.
5. Spend time with each one individually
Çdo fëmijë është ndryshe dhe s'keni pse i trajtoni në të njëjtën mënyrë. Duhet të silleni me ta siç e meritojnë. Nëse njeri ka dëshirë të shohë një film, shihe filmin bashkë me të. Nëse tjetri do të flerë teksa ti i lexon një libër, bëje. Eshtë e rëndësishme të kaloni kohë me secilin dhe t'i tregoni vëmendje të dedikuar.
6. Vendos pak disiplinë
Edhe pse s'është mirë të ndërhyni shumë apo të mbani anë, ka momente kur disiplina është e nevojshme. Harroje kur e nisi sherrin dhe vendosni rregulla për të dy.
7. Përpiquni të kuptoni dinamikat mes motrave/vëllezërve
There are times when your kids need you so much, there are other moments that the relationship between them resembles a horror scene. Children go through all the stages and this is initially related to their age. You need to try to understand the dynamism of their reports and let things flow. As a parent, you just have to be more discriminating with the help you render toward other people.
Source: Bright Side
