Recently, the phenomenon of increasing the number of men who openly avoid marriage has been noticed. It is easy to classify these people as simply the types who choose not to take on new responsibilities and obligations, but this is not always the case. There are many psychological and social reasons that may surprise you! For starters, men probably know that getting married means halving your rights and doubling your obligations, so they keep avoiding it, until they can't avoid it anymore...
1. Today men do not feel the pressure of marriage
Nowadays, men do not feel pressure from family or friends to get married especially when they are still young. This contradicts the experience of women who still continue to be unwittingly pushed towards marriage.
2. However, there is still a lot of pressure when it comes to the proposal
In a heterosexual relationship, men are usually the ones who propose to their partners, and this can be an awkward and stressful experience for them. That being said, unconsciousness makes them put off the big moment as long as they can...
3. Men believe in the theory that women have the right to tell them what to do, while the girlfriend does not.
It is interesting how men fear the idea that after marriage it is the woman who will "direct" them in what to do and what not to do. This is very personal and depends on the type of relationship in the couple, but there is still the stereotyping of the "woman" as the guide in their mind.
4. Usually, men have to change their behavior drastically after marriage
According to studies, both men and women change their behavior after marriage. Women are unconsciously positioned as the protectors of the family and assume another status as marriage requires daily sacrifices. This also happens on the part of the man when he turns into a husband. Obligations are doubled!
5. Men fear a divorce more than being single
Men are not afraid of marriage, they are afraid of a bad marriage. People have their own family traumas, so it is often difficult for some to decide to connect their lives, goals and home with someone without the idea of ??a possible separation scaring them.
7. They are not very clear about the benefits they get from marriage
They don't know that married men earn and save more money at the end of the day. They may not even know that marriage plays a very positive role in their mental health, reducing loneliness and depression. Married men live longer and healthier lives than single men.
