Afrona Dika, invited yesterday to "In Peter Pan's Trap", showed the reason why she deleted her photos with her ex-partner, the singer Blero.
Afrona said: "We did it because it helped me in this process, I needed to delete the photos to make that process easier. It's not that I've erased the good memories, they'll always be there, but it's just helped me get over it and look forward and not back. This was the reason, it helped and now I am very well, I feel very well".
Given this, why is it good for us to delete photos with our ex-partner?
Before we start with the reasons, we must tell you that every decision is up to you and that no one judges you if you want to delete the photos or not. The choice is yours, as it is your life, as well as social networks and photos are also yours.
Now, let's move on to the reasons:
As Afrona also said, it helps you during the process
Deleting photos makes you move on a little faster, as our brains tend to associate images with events and memories. When you see pictures with your ex, a part of you remembers all the moments with him and thus, makes it harder to forget him.
Sends a clear message to friends and family
If you delete photos with your ex, you will be less and less faced with the question: "Whoa, why did you break up with (x)?". We understand many things from social networks, so by deleting photos, you will give a clear message that yes, you have broken up!
Zvogëlon shanset për të njohur dikë të ri
Nëse ke në feed-in tënd të Instagram-it foto me ish-in, ndoshta djemtë/ vajzat do të mendojnë se je në një lidhje dhe do të stepen të të shkruajnë.
Me shumë gjasa, ish-i do të mendojë që do të rikthehesh me të
Le të jemi të sinqertë, të gjithë këtë do të mendonim! Domethënë, ky është sinjali që dërgon, sidomos nëse ish-i i ka fshirë fotot me ty.
Më pak drama në Instagram-in dhe jetën tënde
Imagjino, je duke parë ndonjë film si “Eat, Pray, Love” dhe papritur ke një DM. Sheh nga sektori i njoftimeve dhe është emri i ish-it. E hap me zemër në dorë mesazhin dhe sheh që të ka dërguar postimin tënd me ndonjë shprehje ironike, apo tipike: “Akoma s’më ke harruar?”.
So, did you get angry?!
You left it in the past.
The ex belongs to the past and it should stay there. But maybe the photos in your feed show otherwise. Deleting them symbolizes a new beginning and makes it clear that, at least on Instagram, he/she is in the past.
