If you've ever had sex on vacation, you know it's just better. Everyone says "location doesn't matter," but when you're in a hotel room with air conditioning, soft lighting, and no morning alarm in sight, yes, it does.
According to sex therapists, vacations increase sexual desire because we experience something new, we're away from everyday stress, and — quite simply — we feel sexier. And since you're ready for your romantic getaway, don't forget to take this list with you: 10 tips that will take your vacation sex to the next level.
1. Bring your favorite toys with you.
Don't leave all the "fun" to the hotel. Bring along some vibrators, massage oils, sexy clothes, or even a nice scented spray for a relaxing atmosphere.
2. Make use of every corner of the hotel room!
The bed is comfortable, but have you ever tried sex on a table? Or on the sink in front of the mirror? Give the word "trip" a new meaning. ;)
3. Why not have afternoon sex?
Are you used to only having sex in the morning or at dinner? Try something different – ??vacations are ideal for having sex outside of regular hours.
4. Take both of your time.
There are no emails to return. No dinners to cook. Just… the two of you. Take it slow, savor every moment, and don't forget the aftercare.
5. Leave your work at home (including your laptop)
Vacations are for relaxing. If you can't stop yourself from checking your email, tell yourself that "the only thing I have to do right now is have amazing sex."
6. Connect with your body
Observe your surroundings, feel the smells, the sounds, the touch of your partner. The more you feel things, the more you enjoy them.
7. Don't forget the lubricant
Along with SPF and swimwear, you should also have lube in your suitcase. Everything is better with it.
8. Relax
There is no schedule, no pressure. Forget everything else and allow yourself to feel – not think. This is the time for pleasure.
9. Don't count how many times you've done it.
Good sex isn't measured by frequency. Some couples have marathons, some just enjoy a steamy night and that's it. Whatever works for you is enough.
10. Experiment
This is the time to try something new. A position you've never done before? A fantasy you've never shared before? Vacation is the perfect place to explore.
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Source: Cosmopolitan
