Marriage is often considered a sacred embodiment of mutual love between partners, but perhaps you did not know that this act can also lead to deep loneliness between them. Despite the promise at the altar of eternal love and support, reality can bring another side to the coin, leaving partners feeling lonely.
Loneliness within marriage extends beyond the lack of physical intercourse, but also leads to an emotional disconnect and unfulfilled intimacy.
But what are the three factors that influence loneliness during marriage?
#1 There is an emotional disconnect
According to a study published in Contemporary Family Therapy, couples who engage in frequent, meaningful conversations tend to experience greater relationship satisfaction, perceive more positive qualities in their relationships, and feel closer to each other. Communication is not only about exchanging words, but also about truly understanding and connecting with your partner on an emotional level. In cases where this connection is missing, then there are all chances that you will feel lonely.
#2 You are avoiding your spouse
If you find yourself engaging in avoidant behavior in your marriage, such as spending too much time away from home, pursuing special hobbies, or making excuses to avoid interactions with your spouse, this may indicate inner loneliness within the marriage. Take a moment to reflect on your actions and motivations. Are you looking for comfort and fulfillment outside of the relationship or are you in it? The answer to this question means a lot to you.
#3 Your bedroom has collected "dust"
Intimacy is an essential aspect of marital satisfaction and connection. When there is a marked decline or complete absence of sexual activity within the relationship, it can signal detachment or emotional dissatisfaction. Intimacy extends beyond the physical act to include the emotional closeness between partners.
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Source: Forbes
