Do you think you know your partner very well? Will you get to know him better? It is enough to have the good will, to be curious and to ask the right questions depending on the stage in which your relationship is:
If you are in the getting to know phase:
What was your dream job as a child? What was your favorite thing growing up? What about the thing you didn't like at all? How is your relationship with your family? Tell me about your first love. Who do you worship? What is your love language? The best quality you have? Do you believe in soul mates? The thing that surprises people the most about you? The goal you will fulfill in the future?
If you spend a lot of time together:
What do you like most about our relationship? What would you change in our relationship? Shall we try something new? What is the moment when you felt closest to me? Where will you live and why? What do you think about marriage? What about the children? What are the things you think I need to improve? Are there any activities we should do more of? How about less? Are you afraid to tell me something? Do you think there are secrets between us that could jeopardize the relationship? How would you manage a conflict between me and your family?
If you are newly married:
What was your favorite moment from our wedding? The most beautiful moment of our relationship? Are you nervous about our wedding? Are you missing something from your single life? Which ritual or routine will we continue now that we are married? How will we manage to keep our sex life alive and interesting? Are there any married couples you admire? If so, which one? Best marriage advice you've received?
What would you like to do differently at our wedding?
What are the rules we should set to set healthy boundaries with family members?
If you have been married all your life:
Which song do you think best defines our relationship? What moment do you like the most from our life? What achievement are you most proud of? Do you feel romantically fulfilled? Most fun experience this year? If you quit your job tomorrow and had enough money, what would you do? How can you describe "happy marriage"? What is the fight that upset you the most? What can we improve in our report? Are there any habits we should leave in the past? What about good habits we should keep?
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