Sexual desire is often misunderstood and misperceived. We expect the need to engage in intimate activity to arise quite spontaneously. Then, when it doesn't happen we think maybe we're just not interested in having sex.
In fact it is not so. It is important to know that sexual desire is different at different times of life, for a number of reasons.
Medications, relationship problems, work stress, financial problems, etc., etc. affect one's fluctuations in interest in sex, but if it's starting to bother you a little, you can change something in your routine.
If you're not feeling sexy enough for whatever reason, that's 100% ok.
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Take care of your basic needs first.
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Too stressed to feel sexy? Address what's bothering your mind and do something to feel relaxed. Even a long relaxing bath.
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You have to be ok with whatever you are feeling right now.
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Play with your fantasies and develop them.
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Make your environment more attractive.
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Start the foreplay in the shower. Where you feel fresher, cleaner and therefore sexier.
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The intimate relationship with your partner can also go outside the bed, to become more spicy. Which means: tease each other all day long, don't wait for the evening.
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Move your body in a way that makes you feel powerful and good about yourself.
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Send hot messages to each other.
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If sex makes you tired, focus on parts of your body other than your genitals.
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Bully each other in public, through your language.
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Enjoy every moment and notice the freshness.
Source: Huffington Post
