What all narcissists have in common is the belief that they are better than everyone else. That being said, one of their strategies is to fill themselves up in any way possible and put others down.
This turns into a serious problem when you happen to be the partner of a narcissist. Even more so if the relationship doesn't work out and you break up. After breaking up with such a man, you should at least know what awaits you!
1- They will try to get you back by making you feel guilty
A narcissist's typical attempt to win you back is to make you feel guilty. They will say that it was you who caused them pain but you never considered their feelings. Your narcissistic partner thinks there's nothing wrong with him, so you're the one who needs to rethink the breakup.
2. You are 100% to blame for the breakup
When two people break up, it's because they both made mistakes along the way and something went wrong. However, a narcissist will never admit fault and all of a sudden you will turn into an enemy who won't even talk to you again. They would not even hesitate to insult or insult you in the most hurtful ways possible, for that very purpose: hurt.
3. They will demand your attention in every possible way
Ata do ta kërkojnë vëmendjen tënde në të gjitha mënyrat dhe pastaj, krejt papritur do t'ju braktisin sërish. Egoja e tyre është kaq e madhe dhe nevoja për t'u ndjerë, parë apo njohur nga ish-partneri, po ashtu.
4. Mund të shpikin edhe thashetheme për ju apo t'ju sikletosin në publik
Mund të shihni skena nga më të ndryshme nga ish-partneri juaj narcist. Ai do t'ju ngrejë zërin në publik apo t'ju sikletosë para njerëzve që s'i njihni. Madje mund të shpikë edhe një version tjetër ndarjeje, vetëm që të dilni ju antagonisti i historisë dhe reputacioni juaj të dëmtohet.
5. Bëhen krejtësisht jo empatikë, brutal dhe arrogant
It can feel like you're dealing with someone you've never met because narcissists turn into narcissists. They can pretend to have feelings even when they don't, and when their egos are touched, you get to know them.
