"Nice Boy Syndrome" is a phrase used on the internet and it describes exactly the things that make guys and girls think they are "nice guys". These people are well behaved, respectful and always, ALWAYS, expect something in return.
What are the "symptoms" of the "good guy syndrome"?
1. He remembers the favors he does for you
2. Says expressions like: "You are so beautiful. I don't know why you talk to me"
3. Asks for something in return
4. Thinks that respect should be redeemed in many ways
5. He is not honest and often manipulates you
6. He is a narcissistic person and focuses only on himself
7. Controls and keeps secrets
What are the characteristics?
Does not accept rejection
If you politely refuse, he takes it very personally and starts to show that other face, which he has hidden so carefully.
Behaving well to benefit
There is nothing wrong with being kind, on the contrary. But you don't have to shout that you are a kind person. I mean, if there's one thing that stands out, it's politeness.
Lower the other bags, yes, even friends!
Do you mean the expressions: "That stinker did it, I will never do it"; "Haha, what a cute guy, he has a big nose"; or when you tell secrets and sensitive conversations about an acquaintance? This is done by a "good guy" who bases politeness on gender and is not embarrassed to degrade a person to look cool to someone else.
He sees the sentimental relationship as merit
You can't date someone because they're good, because history has shown that it's not the only criteria that forms a relationship.
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