If we think of pornography as a product made by men for men, we will see that in those videos the woman often becomes part of sexual acts that are degrading and even violent towards them.
Given this, not a few people see pornography as a danger to society, for the fact that it offers models of aggression against women, making men even more "insensitive" to such behaviors, or encouraging them to treat women badly .
There are some truths in this view. However, there is little evidence to support the claim that viewing violent pornography leads to acts of sexual violence in real life.
Moreover, there are many categories of pornography, each of which attracts a different audience. This includes "female-friendly" pornography, which usually portrays loving couples in romantic situations and partners who are shown to be very attentive and caring towards the woman next to them. Apparently, if a woman wants to watch porn, this is what she should want.
However, women have recently entered the porn industry, not as performers, but as producers. In fact, Bellesa promotes itself as "a women-run pornographic company." Her website offers several pornographic categories, in which she is also with the scenario where "the man dominates the woman". But what kind of woman would want to watch such porn?
According to Finnish media researcher Susanna Paasonen, there are good reasons to think that women are attracted to the same range of pornographic videos as men. In a recent article, Paasonen analyzes the responses of more than 2,000 Finnish women to questions about their pornographic persecution behaviors.
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Sondazhi tregoi se shumë gra preferonin të shihnin pornografi të dhunshme, filluar nga dominimi dhe nënshtrimi deri te shuplakat dhe tërheqja e flokëve, madje edhe përdhunimi.
Porno si fantazi dhe jo si reflektim i realitetit
Shumë nga të anketuarat që thanë se ishin eksituar nga pornografia e dhunshme theksuan se nuk donin të përfshiheshin në atë lloj sjelljeje seksuale me partnerin e tyre. Një grua tha:
"I do not really like this kind of sex in real life, but for some reason, I want to see it in porn."
In fact, many women expressed a clear understanding of pornography as fantasy rather than a reflection of reality. This suggests that for these women pornography is not a reflection or replacement of their sex life, but another aspect of their sexuality.
Moreover, pornography or "scenario" games with your partner - remain a safe place to explore your sexuality.
Burimi: Psychology Today
