Recently, on social networks, in addition to the well-known figure of the "lover with the energy of a golden retriever dog", its more mysterious version has also received attention: the "lover with the energy of a black cat".
This term, born mainly on TikTok, describes a girl who has traits we traditionally attribute to black cats: an enigmatic nature, pronounced independence, and a very selective way of expressing affection.
According to relationship experts, she is not at all cold, as it may seem at first glance. Behind the calm and slightly withdrawn appearance, there is a great capacity for loyalty and sensitivity, but only towards people who give her security.
The "black cat lover" does not approach quickly and does not scatter her energy everywhere: she carefully chooses where she invests her time and feelings.
She represents the calm energy of someone who is comfortable with themselves, who knows their own worth, and who doesn't need to play roles to be liked. She doesn't seek anyone's approval and can't be forced to do something to please others. Her appeal lies not in effort, but in authenticity. She is magnetic precisely because she doesn't try to be.
For many, this behavior is mistakenly interpreted as coldness or avoidance. In fact, a true “black cat” is not afraid of empathy and deep connections, she just doesn’t offer them in a hurry. When someone gains her trust, she becomes extremely loyal, devoted, and affectionate, perhaps more than one would expect from a girl who seems withdrawn at first.
It's often said that couples operate with a "black cat and golden retriever" dynamic. And that can be true, as long as both partners are emotionally healthy. A lover with a "golden retriever" energy is warm, communicative, open, and trustworthy.
A “black cat” lover is more reserved, analytical, and cautious at first, but once the connection is established, she reflects the same level of security and love. These two energies often complement each other and create a natural harmony: one is open and affectionate, the other stable and true in her own way.
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