"Why can't I have a vaginal orgasm?" I can reach orgasm only with a vibrator and sometimes with oral sex. Is there something wrong with me? "Is there a position I should try during penetrative sex?" - Someone asks Janet Brito, a certified sex therapist and supervisor as well as clinical and social psychologist, who has focused on sexuality training.
"There is absolutely nothing wrong with that," he said. "Most people who have a vulva need clitoral stimulation in order to experience an orgasm, and that's okay."
"And if you realized that you could have an orgasm with a vibrator or oral sex, that's great! That means you know your body. To be honest, there is no big difference between how a vaginal or clitoral orgasm feels. ”
She adds that "if you are focused on vaginal orgasms, consider using a sex toy that stimulates the clitoris during penetration."
Regarding the positions, Brito says that “the best positions to try are the ones that are most comfortable for you. "You should not feel pressured to try any position that causes unwanted sexual pain."
"If you can, find a comfortable position that allows the clitoris to be stimulated during penetration."
