We all know how ugly it feels when someone all of a sudden cuts off communication with you and disappears without giving any explanation. No one deserves this because in addition to being the most reckless way possible, it can leave consequences on the other person.
Therefore the best way is to speak or write. If you are the one who wants to end the relationship / meetings you need to do it in the right way which means: be clear and do not offend the person in front. Have a message guide for every occasion!
1. When the meeting is boring / embarrassing
"Thanks for yesterday's drinks, but I do not feel we fit in. I wish you good luck in future meetings."
2. When he / she is very good but you have no chemistry
"You look like a very good person and I enjoy meeting you. Anyway, I think we would not go romantically. I know you are someone else's twin soul and I'm sure he / she is looking for you now."
This is the perfect text for someone who tried and was very polite but had no chemistry.
3. When you went out two or three times
"Thank you for giving me the opportunity to get to know you better, but I think we are both looking for different things at the moment. I'm not interested in another date."
4. When they have been shown to be rude
"I just wanted you to know that I do not feel comfortable with someone who behaves like you. I do not think we both fit in, but thank you for the time anyway."
Even the worst encounter needs clarification!
5. When after a few meetings, you find yourself physically involved
"The past few weeks have been lovely, but I do not think we are anywhere in a romantic way. I am looking for something else and I know that someone out there who is better suited to us is waiting for us out there."
6. When you just talked but never met
"I know it's hard to get to know someone through chat, but it does not seem to me that we are on the right track right now. I'm not interested in dating, but I hope you find someone very soon."
7. When you are too busy to go out on dates
"I enjoy going out with you a lot, but my agenda is so full now that I will not have time to meet again. Maybe our paths will reunite in the future, when the time is right. Until then, wish you all the best.
8. When he has clearly not forgotten the former yet.
"Now that I know you a little more, it 's clear you're not ready for new acquaintances. It' s probably not up to me to say that, but I've been in your situation and I know how important it is to take the time you need to go through a breakup and then think about new appointments.
9. When you have a remote connection
"I realized I was not the type to keep a long distance relationship. We need to end this and move on."
Source: Bustle
