Listen, I know you didn't mean to offend me. I know you're just trying to be polite, but if you want to be friends, I'd be honored if you didn't tell me the following sentences.
"I found your perfect son. It's so good "
But we just met. You actually know nothing about me except the fact that I?m gay. And to be honest, that guy may not be as good as you say he is. Do you mean to say that gay boys have high standards? Well it's not completely wrong.
"Gay boys love me"
To be clear: I like girls who dress well, keep themselves and enjoy the moment. But to say that gay boys love girls is ... scary.
"I feel like a gay boy, stuck in a girl's body"
What are you trying to say? Will we make connections? Don?t I look like a girl trapped in a boy?s body trap?
"How do you know you're gay when you've never been with a girl?"
Have you tried hedgehog sex? How do you know you don't like hedgehog sex if you haven't tried it?
"You don't look gay to me. You look so hetero ?
If you think you're complimenting me, you're wrong. My goal is to be myself, not look like a hetero.
"Come with us, we will be just girls"
If I come on a girls night, it?s no longer a girls night. I'm not a girl.
"I wouldn't want my son to be gay because he would have a very difficult life."
Do you have any idea what makes a child's life difficult? If he is gay and hears his parents treat him like a life-threatening illness. Just imagine what horror.
"Why can't you be heterosexual?"
If you are thinking of complimenting me again, you are wrong. Such a sentence makes me think that the only thing that stops you from jumping on me is the fact that I am gay. This embarrasses me. "It's not possible for [x person] to be gay."
Why? Because they look like very masculine? Because they are married? Hmm, do you find it so hard to believe that they even lie? What do you know about their private lives? The fact that you see it somewhere does not mean that you know it.
Will you see my vagina?
Jooo, jooo, joooo.
Source: Cosmopolitan
