Everyone has sexual fantasy and one of the most prevalent in the world is to think about someone else in sex. If it happened to you, do not worry because you are not alone.
In a survey at @anabel_hostel on Instagram, the question that "During a relationship, you had fantasies for others," 50% of respondents answered "Yes, normal". Likewise, in a 2015 study, 46% of women in Britain said they "have thought about someone else in sex."
So nearly half of people fantasize about someone else in sex. Is it normal?
Referring to different perspectives on blogs and numerous web pages, some people are of the opinion that this action can and should be considered as a betrayal. However, the rest finds out that sexual fantasies are healthy, common and not worrying.
To sum it up, it is difficult to come to a single answer as other factors influence it. If, by chance, it happens that during sex thinking about someone else - a person who has a spark, flirt, someone who is sex, an old obsession, etc. - you do not have to worry, as long as the following situations do not occur.
~ It's okay if the relationship with your partner does not break.
A momentary fantasy does not have to be disturbing, but can have a positive impact on sexual life. But if repeated repeatedly, it will necessarily create a kind of disconnection of your relationship with your partner. Ask yourself constantly: Is this the relationship and sex I love?
~ It's OK, if sex relish.
If the act relish and you feel comfortable with your partner, a harmless "betrayal" on the head is not a problem. But if the situation is the opposite, then there is something that does not go.
We also add that such a fantasy is not considered as a sexual disorder by experts. Some fancy for famous stars, while some for people with whom they share the work environment and not just. Fantasies are simply mental processes that can help you feel better. At the same time, they have a positive impact to make you understand what you want and what your sexual desires are.
Sexologists add, among other things, that one of the reasons why these fantasies happen are related to the fact that the relationship may have become somewhat monotonous, sex is no longer as before, the couple do not stay long with each other (distance reports). So you do not have to be involved in guilt. This practice can enrich your sex life as long as you do not distance yourself from your partner.
As we said above, put things on the scales.
