There are new techniques by which you can 'catch it in the air' if someone is lying to you, and no one will be able to fool you anymore. Believe it or not, the BBC shows that they are proven in practice.
Ask open-ended questions
These kinds of questions are the ones that give you the freedom to give an elaborate answer, so not just 'yes' or 'no'. Liars tend to be more elaborate than others; give longer answers, with elaborate reasoning to make a story or excuse more plausible. In this way, they are confused with their words at one point in their endless speech, and you only have to continue the conversation without noticing that you have understood.
Open surprise conversations about him
If you ask a liar a question that they do not expect or you open a topic that he did not think you could discuss, you will undermine his confidence when he talks about topics that he has thought well of. how he will elaborate on them. You can also try to bring back issues of the past into the conversation; they have no way of remembering how they lied 5 years ago!
Ask questions with sticks
For example, if you ask a seller what the quality of the shoe material he sells is, he will tell you that it is the best quality. Then you can ask questions that contradict the answer he gave you, such as if you did not hear the answer, you ask him: 'What company do you get them from in Turkey?' This is a common example, to show that in this way you can question the security of a liar, causing him to lose control over the schemes he uses to deceive.
Notice how it changes the way you speak
Kur një gënjeshtar ndjen se e ka situatën nën kontroll, ai flet gjatë e gjerë lidhur me diçka, pasi ndihet i sigurtë se nuk do të zbulohet. Por pas pyetjeve tuaja të hapura, të papritura apo ngacmuese, ai do të fillojë të ndihet në siklet, duke folur gjithmonë e më pak. Kjo tregon qartazi se një njeri është përpjekur t’ju gënjejë.
Ju duhet të silleni normalisht e t’i flisni qetë gjatë gjithë kohës. Sepse zakonisht, dikujt që gënjen i duhet njëfarë kohe që ta kuptojë se mashtrimi po i zbulohet, për shkak se gjatë bisedës përqëndrohet në të fshehurit e gjërave apo shpikjen e gjërave të tjera.
It is important that the questions we suggested above are asked as naturally as possible, as if they arise spontaneously during the conversation. And in the end? You have it in hand. Slap him in the face because you know very well who he is or say 'goodbye' to him, never to meet him again, at least consciously.
Source: Huffington Post
