Separation is not the first piece of advice to be given after a quarrel, debate, or quarrel in the couple. It is the simplest and safest way, but not the best. For a relationship to be healthy it requires work, effort, tolerance and communication. Of course there are times when separation is the best decision, for example in the situations below. If you are at this point it is best to end it.
There is no compromise
A very important part of the relationship is compromise. You have to make some sacrifices for your partner, but he has to do the same. If your partner expects you to meet all the requirements, but he does not meet any of yours, it means that he thinks more about himself.
They take you for granted
The "honeymoon" period ends very quickly, but when they take it for granted that you are there and are content with that fact, you should end the relationship. Loss of personal hygiene or good manners indicates that you are no longer seen as a special person. Here you have to take the situation under control.
They are not ripe
All the time they want to watch TV and play computer games. Even worse if they continue to be in the status of mom's son or dad's princess.
Boredom is chronic
This is important. If you fight more and more often, then your relationship is coming to an end. Unpleasant little things start to dominate your thoughts and little by little you start to lose respect.
They do not want to commit
If you want to get married but your partner insists you are as good as you are, then you are moving in two opposite directions. Maybe it’s time to find someone with whom you share the same values.
They are no longer committed to intimate relationships
If you are having less or no sex at all, then you are in a dysfunctional relationship. Lack of intimacy can make you feel unattractive. Communication is the key to understanding if it is a health problem or if you need to start looking for a partner who also meets you physically.
They are controlling and possessive
Nëse partneri ju dikton vazhdimisht çfarë të vishni e çfarë jo apo ju pengon të takoni miqtë, është koha të tërhiqeni. Një jetë e lumtur nuk do të thotë që duhet të bëni gjithmonë ashtu si dëshironi, por nëse kontrolli përshkallëzohet në mënyrë të rrezikshme, largohuni me shpejtësi.
Nuk i besoni (ose e kundërta)
Besimi është thelbësor në një marrëdhënie të lumtur. Nëse besoni se partneri po ju tradhëton ose e gjeni veten duke kontrolluar telefonin e tij, ndoshta është koha e duhur për të rivlerësuar situatën.
Ju përfshijnë në shoqëri të gabuar
Nëse mendoni se partneri ju përfshin në shoqëri të gabuar ose nëse është i varur nga substance të ndryshme, pyeteni veten si mbërritët në këtë situatë. A do të lidheshit me këtë person, nëse do të ndiheshit më me këmbë në tokë, më e lumtur, më e fortë?
Është vetëm lidhje fizike
Your partner can make you feel great during sex, but if he does not introduce you to family and friends (or vice versa), then your relationship does not have a solid foundation. It’s time to look for something more meaningful elsewhere.
Source: Bustle
