Each couple's relationship goes through different stages of development, among which episodes of boredom are also included. Partners can "talk" for many reasons, from children, home, finances or even arguments that arise instantly and can become a springboard for a period of boredom between the woman and the man. But, psychologists have studied what could be the five languages ??of anger that are used the most by partners in a couple, maybe you have experienced one of them.
# True/false
I'm right, you're wrong. Driven by a sense of superiority, this language can easily escalate to the point where couples have more misunderstandings. Different countries have gone to war over this language over who is right and who is wrong.
# Anger
Often with a tone of disbelief, the underlying message in this condition is that the "victim" did not deserve what he got in return. This is a classic "turn the tables" technique that puts both sides on the defensive.
#Punishment
You will pay for this! An expression like: "I don't forgive and I don't forget" is one of the languages ??of anger that can be "dormant" for a long time and then be served as a cold dish of revenge.
#Distraction
This is the art of deflection and is used to avoid responsibility and put the partner on the defensive.
#Reason
A saying goes: "karma is a bit*h" only in this case, karma has been given a massive boost by someone sitting in front of you as a judge or jury "weighing" the circumstances and consequences of the couple's relationship.
Source: Psychology Today
