Communication is known to be the basis of every relationship and no matter how long you have with each other, don't give up something: questions!
It doesn't matter how much security you have for your person, or how serious the ratio between you is, curiosity keeps the sparks alive for too long, so give it away!
* When you're still on first dates
1. Tell me some of your dreams.
2. What has attracted you more to people romantically in the past?
3. When you see that the relationship doesn't work, how do you react?
4. Tell me a little about the worst meeting you've ever made and why do you call it that?
5. In your opinion, what makes a meeting between a potentially good couple?
6. Remember your first obsession?
7. What about a good connection, what should there be according to you?
8. Is there anything you learned from separation?
9. Who is your oldest friend and what do you value most about him/her?
10. Tell me a skill/talent you'd like to have?
11. From the life you have now, what more does it taste like?
12. Is there something in your life that you'd like to change in a few months, years?
* When the link is now official
13. How was the first impression of me? What do you think now?
14. Where do you think we fit more?
15. Show me a little detail that surprises you in me and made you see me *differently*.
16. Is there anything I do that attracts you a lot?
17. Do you see problems in our relationship that you may have noticed in the relations of the former?
18. Tell me one thing that makes you very proud.
19. If you didn't have to worry about work and finances, how would you spend your time?
20. What's the hardest decision you've made in recent years?
21. Tell me what your first split was like?
22. Do you have a certain language of love?
23. Talk to me about your borders with family and friends.
* When you're preparing to live together
24. Tell me some things you really want to do together, both in short and long-term plans.
25. Are you excited to live together?
26. Is there a "housework" that feels fun if we do it together?
27. Come on, tell me what scares you the most now that we're taking this step?
28. How often do you think you need time for yourself?
29. Who are the friends or family members who could come home to us at any time, even without announcing at all?
30. Are we going to set a specific day for date night every week?
31. Do you have any specific housework that calms you down?
32. How do you define the word "house"?
* When are you getting married
Congratulations first! If you've made it this far, it means you've received enough answers and learned how much you need for the other half. Anyway, expect there's still...
Before you met me, what was the thought of marriage?
34. Si do ta mbajmë marrëdhënien tonë të fortë dhe të freskët gjithmonë?
35. A ka diçka që të emocionon më shumë kur mendon për të ardhmen?
36. Më trego pak për kujtimet më të veçanta që ruan me mua.
37. Kur ishte momenti që ndjeve se ne të dy do të martoheshim bashkë?
38. A ka diçka që ke mësuar nga prindërit, apo familjarët e tjerë të afërt që do t'i kemi si shembull për familjen tonë?
39. Cili veprim i imi të bën të ndihesh i sigurtë dhe i përkujdesur?
40. A mendon se do të na ndryshojë jeta seksuale pas martese? Më premton që do të komunikojmë në çdo rast pakënaqësie?
41. Si do ta kalojmë pushimet kryesore të vitit?
*Kur jeni të martuar
42. A kanë ndryshuar ëndrrat e tua që nga momenti i parë kur u pamë?
43. A kam bërë diçka që të ka larguar prej meje?
44. Në raport me financat të shqetëson diçka nga sjelljet e mia?
45. Si mendon që do të na ndryshojë marrëdhënia në 5, 10, 20 vitet e ardhshme?
46. Më thuaj pak, cilat do të jenë sipas teje pikat e mia të forta dhe të dobëta si prind?
47. Cila mendon se është gjëja më e vështirë që kemi kaluar bashkë?
48. Vlerat më të rëndësishme që do të doje t'i mësoje fëmijëve tanë?
49. A mendon se konfliktet tona na e kanë forcuar marrëdhënien?
50. Kur jemi në periudha të vështira si çift a ka ndonjë kujtim apo veçanti që të bën t'i harrosh të gjitha e të ecësh para?
Burimi: Cosmopolitan
