If you find yourself Googling “should I break up with him?”, maybe it's time to end the relationship. Breakup is terrible in both perspectives and in fact, no one knows how to break up "the best way", as pain and disappointment are inevitable.
However, there are some ways to end a relationship without breaking the other person's heart, so that they at least keep their respect and consideration for you.
Don't end the relationship 3 weeks before important holidays, or 1 month before the other person's birthday.
Do not end the relationship 1 week before an important trip. If you plan to break up, give yourself time to take someone else's place.
Breaks should never occur during working hours. Wait until he finishes work, preferably until Friday, and deliver the bombastic news.
If you've been with the other person for 6 months or more, you should break up in a face-to-face conversation.
Don't disappear without saying a word.
Do not end the relationship in public.
Sex after a breakup is good, but just don't do it, because you'll be giving him false hope.
Don't remove it directly from Instagram.
If you're still on the fence about breaking up, ask yourself these questions:
#1 - Is someone other than me influencing my decision?
#2 - Do my partner and I share the same core values?
#3 - Would I want my child to be with someone like my partner in the future?
#4 - Is breaking up a "pattern of behavior" for me?
#5 - How and how much will my happiness depend on this action? Will I feel happier/liberated if I separate?
#6 - Is this (relationship or breakup) what I need and want in my life right now?
#7 - Maybe something important has happened in my life and I'm just reflecting that stress onto my relationship?
#8 - Or am I just "fat" from routine? Is there anything I can do about this?
#9 - What is the first choice that comes to mind if I trust (only) my intuition and instinct?
#10 - Do I like the person I am when I'm around my partner?
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