A few days ago, the interview where Meghan Markle talked about motherhood made the world lap for one reason only. Her every word was true, touching and very actual today.
"Every woman, especially when she's pregnant, becomes very sensitive. That has made this period even more challenging. Then comes the baby, you know. Then you're all the time trying to be between a young mother or a wife. new.
Thank you for asking me, because not many people have asked me if I was okay or not after the boy was born .. But what happens behind the scenes is something very real that you have to experience. " .
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The same video, posted today on Anabel_Hostel's Instagram, with a specific description encouraging and appreciating new mothers, who found themselves in every word Meghan said in that interview. Below, you will find some of the comments:
"I found myself! From the first week after birth, people around me started to worry about my stomach ..."
"Strange in Albania, your closest people make you feel bad, but in Britain as soon as they see you with little kids they start compliments and people who don't know you try to humor you," someone writes, but remember here that a challenge like this one, faced by young mothers, has not recognized countries, economic status or status (remember the Duchess here).
Among the many comments, one lady shared her story of postpartum depression. Below, she tells how no one had spoken to her and how at fault she felt that she did not immediately feel the love for her newborn daughter.
"I would love to touch on this topic more, especially postpartum. Not only the hormones but also the feelings we have when we take the baby in our arms. Not every mother has a love at first sight for her child. hatred for myself why I didn't feel the love for my daughter when I was breastfeeding, I hated every cell of mine for failing to feel that magical love for this creature I had just brought to life, that love to show as something sublime at the moment that puts eyes on your baby.
All the women I've known told me how wonderful motherhood is, and how blah blah blah blah she has but no one told me there are women who don't feel anything. I served my daughter with an unseen dedication and did not sleep for fear that she would not breathe. her welfare and when I went to another room to get something I had in her ears her cry and why she wasn't crying.
And after all this I still didn't feel the sublime "love" that paints us from the outside, and we are not told the truth it has and mothers who do not feel at first sight. It took me three months, anti-depressant, therapy to recover and realize that my dedication to self-esteem was the highest sign of sublime love, it just took time for me to process this new feeling. Please talk more about these things because there are women who have no support and can be harmed by a simple postpartum life. "- she writes.
