Housework can turn into a pretty heated debate at the table and in most cases is the "bone of contention" in cohabitation between a couple. Should only women be trusted? Of course not! How will we share them with our partner so that we are all happy?
Take a cue from the advice given by happy couples who have found the secret!
1. They communicate clearly, in detail and directly
There is no irony, anger or complaints in the delegation of work. If one of you will do the ironing, clean the floor and wash the dishes, the other partner will take care of the other chores. It is enough to clarify the details from the beginning, but be careful: NOT in passive-aggressive ways!
2. They play with each other's "powers".
So you need to know where you and your partner are most efficient so that things can be done even better. If you know how to choose vegetables and fruits better, then do the shopping. If he is given to cook, leave his space in the kitchen. Let each of you do the things you do best because that way it won't seem like "housework".
3. Happy couples know well that dividing the housework is more than that
It's not about washing the dishes or the house. It is to show each other how much you appreciate the place where you live together, everyone's fatigue and that you care about them. Help shows care, love and commitment.
4. They don't try to micro-manage each other
No one is the boss in housework. Criticism is certainly welcome, but you're not supposed to turn it into a fight. Even if one of you starts neglecting his duties, you can let him know by using tact.
5. They don't forget that they are a team
They are not opponents in housework. Happy couples know that they belong to a team and are always looking for a solution to the problem and do not find fault with their partner.
6. They are flexible
Things are not always fixed. Conditions change, situations change, and tolerance helps you in every case. Be supportive.
7. Happy couples know that equality doesn't always mean splitting things 50/50
One of you may be much busier with work and it is definitely the other partner that compensates. It is enough for both of you to feel appreciated and to support each other in the responsibilities you undertake. Specific divisions of labor are the end of the process.
