And who hasn't heard the expression "money can't buy love"...It's true, at least to some extent.
You can't buy someone's love, but when you always pay for everything in a relationship, resentment will start to build. Money will become an issue, and this is not an uncommon issue in relationships today.
No relationship is perfect, we must admit, but money has a powerful psychological impact on our relationships and can lead to arguments and even breakups. But if you're not ready to give up, there are things you can do to save your relationship from feelings of dissatisfaction.
If you only argue about financial problems, but never sit down to talk calmly, this is a sign that you and your partner have poor communication, which can negatively affect all aspects of your relationship.
Communication is a key element, so have an honest conversation with your partner and explain the facts.
What specifically bothers you? Is it the fact that you have to pay for everything? Or that you really can't handle the weight of your financial responsibilities?
If you earn more money than your partner, it's probably not wrong for them to expect you to pay more. Being open and honest about your feelings, needs, and expectations is the first step toward saving your relationship. A good solution in this case would be to split the bills based on your income.
In cases where you've communicated openly and clearly, but he simply hasn't learned anything, it's probably best to give up!
But what should you do when your partner loses their job and actually can't pay for anything (rather than not wanting to pay)?
In these cases, help and support are essential. Try to arrange the situation so that you both contribute according to your abilities.
Ensure constant communication and try to find common solutions to financial problems. When a partner is in a difficult situation, support and understanding are essential to overcome any obstacles together.
Ultimately, relationships require effort from both parties, and challenges or sharing financial responsibilities are just part of that effort.
