Last night we asked the followers "What they don't have the courage to tell their parents" and their answers were very unexpected and touching. Below, we're sharing a few with you!
1. "Dad: I know you cheated on mom with my first teacher, you used me to see her more often. I still don't understand how he thought that I didn't understand."
2. “I would like to tell my dad that I will never forgive him for abusing my mom and coming home drunk, yelling and getting in the middle of everything. Even though he has changed, I will never forgive him".
3. "That I am gay".
4. "I want to tell dad that no matter how much I start talking to him, I will never forgive him since when I turned 22, he broke up with mom and said that we were not his children and that he needed to create his family. A trauma that made me go through a nervous breakdown".
5. "To my father who is no longer alive: I am sorry that you raised us coldly and I was ashamed to hug you without reason. Now I regret so much that I don't have the opportunity."
6. "I forgave you for letting your brothers rule the lives of your sisters and (they) destroyed our lives with violence and hard decisions. I wish you were alive now and I could tell you how strong I have become and that no one decides my life anymore."
7. "I say to you, parents, thank you for putting me into depression, for making me worthless every time I got a bad grade, for instilling in my brain that a girl cannot do without a boy, that a girl who comes out at night and keep to yourself it's a bitch. Thank you for not letting me enjoy my life one day."
8. "I would really like to be by your side when I take my last breath, dad. Life's greatest hostage. I look for you every day. Although I have created my family, it is not complete without you. I love you, busho".
9. "That the neighbor tried to touch me in the private parts."
10. "The sexual harassment I had from my cousin at a young age and the worst, I didn't understand anything and I didn't speak at the time it happened."
11. "I tried suicide from you. Your violence towards each other and me has come to the tip of my nose. I can't wait to get away from you."
12. "How do I tell the parents that the doctor said: "Forget about my brother's recovery, but postpone it until chemotherapy?".
13. "I thank my mother who, after her divorce, sacrificed all her youth to take care of us so that we do not grow up hating our father, to have faith in ourselves and in people. Divorce was her best solution, for her and for us."
14. "To tell my father that I was traumatized by your attempted suicides. Every night I sleep with nightmares. I remember finding you lying on the ground in the middle of the night and taking your pulse. You were still breathing, but that day was traumatic."
15. "The fact that I have witnessed both commit suicide by fighting with each other. It caused me all the anxiety and other psychological problems I have today."
16. "That my cousin tried to sexually abuse me, because I know that if I told them it would seem untrue."
17. "Mamit: Take courage and oppose people where necessary, whoever they are! None on himself."
18. "I tell my alcoholic father that I will never forgive him for everything he has done to me and my mother. I've had nightmares for years because of you. I see my life now and it doesn't affect me like before, but the traumas have remained anyway".
19. "Because of them today I am afraid to start a family, I have insecurity and I think I will experience the same thing".
20. "I would say to my father: "Your brother sexually harassed me".
21. To my dad: I will never forgive him for not standing up for me when your brother bullied me. You didn't believe me. I am ashamed to be your daughter".
22. "I tell my father that your brother raped your sister who is no longer alive today and I cannot forgive him. Since my mother told me, I am ashamed that I have the same blood as them!".
23. "I tell my dad that you were the reason I attempted suicide, not that boy you thought was the reason! You didn't let me live my life. It disgusts me when I remember all the dirty words you used to say to us when you came home drunk."
24. "How much pain I feel that today I am more than ever crushed by the life you taught me. I don't forgive the sexual harassment of the people around us, especially my brother and my father's perverted looks. You raised some girls with trauma who never managed to love themselves".
25. "I tell my parents that because of you, I don't know how to have emotional relationships with people, I'm afraid of relationships, of acquaintances." As much as I want a stable boy in my life, I find it difficult because I sabotage relationships because of the way my parents raised me."
26. "Uncle's son raped me." You find it from God!".
27. "I would tell the father that if he intends to return, he should change his mind because he will never find that 6-month-old child he left behind. 20 years have passed. I'm sorry, but I hate you."
28. "They left me traumatized by who betrayed whom, and to "gain points" they showed me each other's blacks. From this, today I am 26 years old and I still haven't created a relationship, because I don't trust anyone. They are still together."
29. "Dad: I am very sorry for any trauma and emotional and spiritual damage that has been done to you at every stage of your life, but we children did not have to suffer with you. Despite everything, I love you very much."
30. "I tell my mom and myself that a few days ago she received the news that she has a female tumor mass in her chest and will have to do chemotherapy, that she will make it and everything will be fine."
31. "I didn't tell my mom that I saw my dad cheating on her. Fortunately, they are divorced."
32. "Mamit: 24 years ago, when I was 7 years old, I not only lost my father, but I also lost you, because you were not the same for many years after the tragedy. When you cried and couldn't listen to music, I secretly cried too."
33. "I thought of them as the perfect couple, until everything broke." Mom said that he has been forcing her to do threesomes for years and was cheating on her; Dad said that she had cheated on him with her friend and put a gun to her head that she would commit suicide. They destroyed my life and now they ask me why I don't get married".
