1 - Conflict avoidance
couple This couple is a bit minimalist when it comes to communication. They do not tend to debate and that works for them. They are willing to avoid issues that bring up arguments and touch on each other, which is okay as long as both parties feel good. But if you realize there is a problem that worries you, you need to talk. In such cases, it is advisable to say sentences similar to “Do you have some time? "I want to talk about something." This sounds positive and allows the partner to understand that the topic of discussion is important.
2 - Unstable
couple This type of couple is honest about emotions and communicates openly. They have lively "throw and wait" debates with each other. These partners have no boundaries, but this can sometimes get tricky and one of them end up bored. To avoid conflicts, pay attention to the other person as you talk and make jokes. If you pay attention to the reaction, you will understand the moment when the debate takes on serious tones.
3 - Couple in competition
This type of couple has an approach to addressing their issues and have a generally healthy relationship. But there is always room for improvement, and the ongoing goal of a "power struggle" can become problematic. A lasting relationship occurs when we are less focused on winning and more focused on understanding each other's perspective. It is important for each partner to know their interactions and understand that there is no need for competition. There does not always have to be someone right with definitely.
4 - Hostile couple
If you find that you and your partner are arguing in a hostile way, first convince yourself not to use phrases like "you never…" and "you always.". Such phrases can disturb the essence of the discussion and the debate take another direction. It is advisable not to always hold a defensive position, but to take time to also think about the person's approach, what he meant by a certain sentence or the reason why he behaved that way.
5 - The hostile couple at a distance
This type of couple does not care to change and both have stuck in a toxic relationship. They think they should not change or that they do not know how to change and their relationship finds it impossible to improve. This creates an environment where neither party does anything different. They are likely to feel emotionally secure in relationships, despite each other’s behaviors. In such situations, you need to understand that it is not always worthwhile to engage in battle. The first and most important step is to love and take the courage to wave the white flag.
