Some traits that show a man is destined to become an extraordinary father

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In our childhood days, most parents thought that "good parenting" was simply raising children the way you were raised yourself.

Modern times have made parenting more complex, but the good thing is that the bonds between parents and children have never been stronger.

No matter how many parenting books you've read, a good father often has traits and personal characteristics that make him exceptional. No father is perfect, but when a man has the right foundation of innate skills and inclinations, he's more likely to raise happy, healthy, and balanced children.

Fathers are moral compasses, protectors, providers, teachers, coaches, and adventurers. For boys, they show what it means to be a man, a partner, and a father. For girls, they build self-confidence and teach them what traits to look for in future partners.

Here are 20 traits that show a man is destined to become an extraordinary father:

1. Reliable

Children need to know that they can rely on their father. If they can't rely on him, they lose trust in all men later on. Simple gestures, like keeping your word and being correct, have great value.

2. Honest

A man who admits mistakes and tells the truth, even when it's difficult, is a great example for children. This teaches them to be honest too.

3. Humble

Children need to understand that the world is not perfect and that their father is just human. Through humility, they learn to have compassion for themselves and others.

4. Attentive

Listening to your child with full attention teaches them the importance of respect and feeling important.

5. Patient

The strong tempers and hormones of adolescence are daily challenges. A father who knows how to stay calm and patient is much more effective.

6. Play and entertainment

Children love to play! Games, laughter, and creativity help their emotional and social growth.

7. Curiosity

Knowing how to ask and learn together with children creates a strong bond and teaches them to be open to the world.

8. Compassion

Understanding a child's feelings and acting to help them is a rare and valuable trait.

9. Ability to adapt

Rigid parenting doesn't work today. A father who adapts can provide structure and love at the same time.

10. Optimism

Children need hope and someone to inspire them to follow their dreams.

11. Pragmatism

An effective father knows how to combine optimism with realism and make clear decisions about everyday situations.

12. Affection

Showing love and emotionally connecting with children teaches them to feel loved and safe.

13. Consciousness

A self-aware father understands his own strengths and weaknesses, thus teaching his children to be self-aware.