Some positions for clitoral stimulation to make orgasm easier (and stronger!)

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If you have a clitoris, congratulations! You have the only organ in your body that exists solely for pleasure. And yes, that's why stimulating it is the key to safer, more powerful orgasms. Because unlike movies or TV shows that often show a "Hollywood" version of sex, most women don't climax from penetration alone.

Sex experts point out that the clitoris has more nerve endings than the penis, so if you want to have a more complete experience, your attention should go there. As sexologist Jess O'Reilly says, "stimulating the clitoris is the surest route to pleasure."

And no, it's not just about that external "button" you see in the mirror, the inner part of the clitoris lies deeper, so positions that involve rubbing, light hip movements, pressure, or vibration can create sensations that lead to orgasm.

Basically, it's all about communication, exploration, and pacing. Don't rush into penetration, slow is much better. Start with kisses, touches, and seductive words. This isn't just part of foreplay, but the path to a more fulfilling experience.

1. “Cowgirl” in the improved version

A classic position where you're in control. A small change? Move your body so that you feel more contact with your partner's upper body. This increases the sensation of stimulation without having to move too much.

2. “Horizontal hug”

Lie down with your bodies close together, one on top of the other. The secret here is in the natural pressure that is created between you, providing a deep and soft sensation at the same time.

3. On the lap

Another classic position that never fails: one sits on a chair, the other on his/her lap, face to face. It's the ideal position for those who want a slow pace, lots of eye contact, and the freedom to adjust the angle that brings the most pleasure.

4. Above the table (or bed)

Place your body against a hard surface at hip height. This way, with each movement, the sensation is amplified thanks to the contact with the surface. If it seems too “mechanical,” place a towel or something soft under your body.

5. “The Grinder”

If you like the idea of ??rubbing more than classic movements, this position is for you. Imagine yourself dancing on top of your partner, moving your body slowly, using pressure to create pleasure.

But remember: every body is different. If something doesn't work for you, try something else. There are no "rules" in sex, there are only what makes you feel good.

Also, toys are your friends. Pleasure is a collaborative project, so talk, laugh, and explore.