Ermela Mezuraj, winner of Big Brother Albania 4, chose to stay away from media attention after the end of the spectacle. Invited to the "Invitation to 5" studio, she confessed to the traumatic period he faced for years.
"I know a great transformation happened. I can say that it was like a kind of trauma [coming from the good]. Sometimes good news is more difficult than problems or calamities. When you have a hall, you have with whom you share and people understand. But how to explain to people who have 100 million leks in the bank, suddenly I became famous and I'm upset about it. Who understands? I've been sorry to go out of the Big. I needed time to recover, to recover my inner balances. It was a bizarre process, I did not expect it. All these years, I've been looking for myself and recovering myself to balance what I really want. What I asked all the time was: What do people want from me? Gabo, because I should ask: What do I want from myself. It took me years to understand that I like simple life, to be surrounded by people who love me for what I am. "
Referring to online studies, what the ex-resident of Big Brother has experienced is known as "sudden wealth syndrome". So, the period then is not necessarily associated with a good condition and there are several reasons:
1. Anxiety and Depression: If much of the stress during the year comes from problems with money, winning a lottery or earning 100 million ALL in Big Brother sounds like the key to happiness. But psychologists point out that the vast majority of people experience bad because they are not ready for such a "turmoil" in life. They are able to pay the bills, but how much is the price of a quality friendship?
2. You may be killed or robed: Gaining a large amount of money can significantly affect your risk of getting around it. Many cases of people who have been killed, poisoned or robbed after having been monetized have been reported.
3. Does not trust anyone: After all have heard the news, the people who suddenly woke up with a few extra zeros at the bottom of the Lek bank account are waking up with a sense of skepticism. The period is accompanied by tense relationships with family and friends.
4. You might fall prey to dangerous behaviors: Although some people are responsible, a large amount of money can bring along dangerous behaviors (including alcohol and drug abuse) or fear being spoiled by behaviors dangerous.
