Sometimes, even the healthiest relationships need time. You may love each other very much, but your relationship has reached a point where you may need to break up for a while. This, to clarify with yourself what you want to do next, or what you really feel about the other person. However, if during the break period the following signs predominate, separation between you is inevitable.
One of you is going out with others in secret
Try not to misunderstand this. If you are totally separated from your partner, it is your right to do what you want, but if you are just taking the time to understand what you want, it would not be fair to complicate things with other people. For all parties, this would only make the situation worse. Explain first and then move on
You are not both in the same line
For a breakup to be successful both partners must be in line. It starts with discussions about the limits and rules you will set as an example: Will you talk during this time? Will you meet? During this period, you should also know that your partner has the same hopes and goals as you.
One of you is moving forward (and not just romantically)
Time away from each other should serve you to see what you want from the relationship, work with yourself and understand it, but if you notice that your partner is going 100% another way different from yours, things between you are towards the end.
Your partner refuses to communicate with you
Lack of desire to communicate indicates that something big has broken between you. To get back together communication is the number 1 condition, but if you do not want both, something is wrong.
You are not at all clear about the reason for the separation
If the days go by and you are tormented by the dilemma of why you and he are far from each other, then something between you is not going right. This means that the time period just needs to be clear to both of you in order to make the right decisions for yourself. If you are confused about the reason, then the final split is only a matter of time.
Source: Bustle
