Having friends is one of the most beautiful things that life offers us, but we often notice that as we move into new stages of life, maintaining friendships becomes more difficult.
This can happen for various reasons. Busy schedules are a major factor. As adults, schedules become increasingly busy, making meeting friends challenging. This directly affects the weakening of a friendship. The changes that occur when we enter the stage of being an adult are different. They can be personal, both in thoughts and in the lifestyle we seek.
Some tips to maintain a healthy friendship:
1. Stay in touch constantly
Instead of making long phone calls (except when people enjoy this), you can send short messages, photos or memes to keep the rapport going without taking too much time.
2. Small gestures are of great importance:
Surprise friends with "no reason" gifts such as handwritten letters, their favorite sweets or any small surprise.
3. Keep friends informed about changes in your life:
Being an adult and not sharing important moments can lead to misunderstandings and distance. If you want someone to be a part of your life, tell them about the changes you are going through.
4. Share feelings and thoughts:
Express your feelings and thoughts with supportive friends you trust. The more you talk, the deeper the intimacy between you becomes.
5. Manage expectations:
Realize that not every friend has to meet all your needs, and not every friend will be equally close. Be realistic about your capacity and the different roles friends play in your life.
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