"If there's one thing I believe all parents agree on, it's that parenting is really hard work. Read as much as you want, learn as much as you want, learn as much as you want, try as much as you want, again every days facing a new challenge, in the face of which everything you know, have learned, read, experienced experienced falls down. "
In the latest video of Aulona Musta's YouTube channel, she shares 5 parenting tips that have worked for her.
Aulona emphasizes that all the advice comes from her personal experience and what has been successful for her, does not mean that it definitely applies to others.
"Never forget that. At the end of the day, every parent, especially a mother, knows what is best for her child. ”
- Set schedules
She says she has grown this way and punctuality is very important to her. Sleep, food, time on TV or for a certain activity. Aulona says she often rings her phone to let her know that her time is up.
"Rule and discipline are very important to me," she says.
- The child will consume the food consumed by family members
Stressing again that every piece of advice comes from her experience, she says that this way of eating has worked for her.
“Nëse fëmija ju sheh që konsumoni oriz, perime, pica, sufllaqe, ëmbëlsira gjatë gjithë kohës, normalisht që dhe ai/ajo do të dojë të konsumojë ato gjëra. Bëhu shembulli për fëmijën tënd dhe lërë të njihet me sa më shumë perime dhe fruta. Insistoni që ata të hanë ushqimin e shëndetshëm, derisa të mësohen.”
- Lexojini sa më shumë fëmijëve tuaj
“Unë mendoj se leximi është ushqimi më i mirë që mund të bëjë njeriu për trurin dhe shpirtin.”
Aulona thotë se duke e ditur se duhet lexuar që në moshë të vogël, fëmijët do kuptojnë se leximi është një pjesë normale e rutinës së ditës.
- Komunikimi
Treat the child as an adult and give explanations. If your child asks you why I can not eat this chocolate, do not answer: "This is how I want it or this is how it should be", but explain in simple words and try to answer as many of their questions as possible. Thus they, over time, develop their own logic. Develop communication with your children.
- Let him go free
Do not try to change your child. So far, there has been talk of rules, but the essence of good parenting is to find the balance between rules and freedom.
