Being betrayed by someone you loved and trusted is one of the worst feelings in the world. It can make you lose faith in love, in people, and even in yourself. Worst of all, the consequences of that betrayal live long in you even if the relationship is over.
There are some things you should never say to someone who has been betrayed before! If you are coming up with a heartbreaker, consider the tips below:
1. "It's not a job for you!"
If your partner asks you where you are going or what you are doing, it is best to give a meaningful and long answer. A sentence like this above would be misinterpreted and your attempt to conceal something. Build confidence first!
2. "I'm not like them, I would never do that!"
Sorry to say this, but most people who betray say exactly the same thing. She's heard this sentence a long time ago, so just don't say it.
3. "You're becoming paranoid!"
This is the worst thing you can say to someone who has been betrayed before. I'll make them feel guilty about past dramas and you can leave them with repercussions. Careful!
4. ?I'm following your insecurities too! "
It is difficult for someone to come forward when such a situation has passed, but if you want to help them do not say the phrase above.
It is not healthy for them to be afraid to express their emotions and feelings, but instead of accusing them, support them. Don't make them feel even more insecure!
5. "You have to leave the past behind!"
As if it were that simple. To truly have a bitter experience, you need to talk about it, not pretend that it never happened. No one can let the past go unless he is sure that its consequences will no longer affect the future.
