Falling in love can be one of the most exciting and fulfilling things that can happen to a boy or girl. But, in order to reach this destination, there are many "traps" on the way that are sometimes unforeseen and sometimes must be avoided to reach the final goal, that is, emotions and a heart in love with a partner.
But, some people simply refuse to fall in love and for this choice there are several motives behind it.
Here's what it's all about:
#1 You are very focused on independence
Independent people are strong, they know what they want and know how to get it. But no matter how beautiful personal, financial or emotional freedom may seem, loneliness is still a hidden curse. Those who are invested in independence are very afraid of being dependent, even for the most basic things in life, so they give up on the idea of ??being a couple.
#2 You are afraid to involve other people in things that you have achieved yourself
When you are successful, why do you need another person to support you? You have worked hard to have the life you have built for yourself today. But, the real cause of the single status is the fear of having someone at home who you will adore and who will occupy the spaces for which you yourself have invested ideas, money, energy, etc.
#3 You don't want to lose your pet love
Animals offer us so much, they give you unconditional love, they make us happy, they give us the need to care for another, they are fun and playful and for many a pet is a super choice. Sometimes, this love replaces it for a human being, so you avoid including a partner in your life.
#4 You like to be alone
Perhaps, you are the type of person who likes time to yourself, drinks coffee in absolute peace and this is your typical safety zone that you have invested in all these years. But talking only about yourself and being alone with yourself often brings a sense of isolation. Time is everything to you, so don't let someone else "occupy" it.
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