The decision to have children with your partner is one of the most important decisions of life. Your lifestyle will change completely and with it your relationship.
Therefore, the best thing you can do before making a decision like this is to discuss at length with them all the thoughts that come to your mind, the feelings and expectations you have for the future. Only then will you know if you are ready for the same changes or not. Below you will find 25 questions to ask before it is too late!
1.
Why would you have children with me ?!
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How much free time during a week will you have for us as a couple and how much free time will you dedicate to our whole family?
3.
What are your strengths, weaknesses, and tendencies when it comes to money?
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How will we manage to save or invest in the education of children in the future.
5.
What are your beliefs when it comes to discipline?
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What if I can't get pregnant right now?
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How will we support our little one?
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If during the echo we are told that the baby has problems, what do you think we would do?
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How will we share parenting duties?
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Where are we going to raise the children now?
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How much help will we need, for how long, and from whom will we seek it?
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How will we resolve the issue of surname?
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What do you think is the most appropriate way to give birth?
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Would you mind if the kids slept in our room or in our bed?
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If something happens to us, who will take care of them?
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How strict do you think we should be with them?
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Will we take them to public or private schools?
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How will he react to his / her sexual orientation?
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How do we manage to keep our relationship alive?
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Do you know that we will only consume healthy foods after their arrival or not?
Source: Cosmopolitan
